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December – Our Connections With Others

December brings to mind the connections we have with family and others. For instance, for me, it signifies my father’s birthday (lost to lung cancer), my mother’s death (breast cancer), and my own breast cancer diagnosis 8 days before Christmas. December also reminds me how grateful I am to have the people in my life both who reach out to include me in their festivities, and also to those who allow me to reach out to them in an effort to be a friend, or perhaps to help ease the way for a new acquaintance.

The month of December also brings with it the many holiday celebrations of cultures from around the world who now call the United States home. Instead of fighting over the proper way to express a greeting this time of year, maybe instead we could embrace the intent of the greeting…happy festivities, joy, peace, gratitude.

Now there’s an idea!

Have a Flexible Plan B

Last Tuesday the universe reminded me it’s a good idea to have a flexible plan, even better, a flexible plan B.

This week I was really looking forward to my first Cha Cha dance class. When I arrived I discovered class had been cancelled. 

So, while I drove around Orlando locating the studio where the Salsa classes are on Friday (so I dont get lost LOL), I was able to listen to an IMDHA virtual meeting about generative change, which I would have missed in Cha Cha class.

In addition I was able to make some network connections, and get the information on the HEA meeting last weekend.

Even though the telecon ran a little over I was still able to get a little unrushed shopping done.

Not only was tonight NOT a loss, it ended up being an asset to me.

This is such a metaphor for life in general. Have a plan “B”. Don’t obsess over it, but make one so you know, in the future, if needed you’ll have one.

Kim Croft, the Breast Cancer Recovery Coach, CCHt.